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Is it cheating if your partner showers at their ex's place after the gym because "it's closer"?
Asked another way: Is it cheating if your girlfriend showers at her ex's place after the gym because "it's closer"? Is it cheating if your boyfriend showers at his ex's place after the gym because "it's closer"?
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Nah. Relax. It's nothing.
Micro. Not cheating. Just disrespectful.
Macro. Phone on the table. Now.
Unforgivable. Bags packed. Locks changed.
Every case on Cheatistics gets one of four verdicts. Micro-cheating means small, often secret behavior that points attention or intimacy outside the relationship. Macro is a real breach of trust. Unforgivable is the end of the relationship. Read the full breakdown.
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